While events are still fresh in my mind, I want to try to remember the inspiring patients and families and events that remind us why it is great to be a surgeon, nurse, PA, nurse practitioner, medical assistant, X-Ray tech, scrub tech... you name it! Every day there are little miracles that occur that make you smile.... and I often say that I should write them down while the "energy spike" of the moment is fresh.... but usually I don't!
The miracle guy I want to focus on first is my friend, and future MD partner Ahmad. Ahmad is 12 years old, and will be 13 years old tomorrow, April Fool's Day!! HAPPY BIRTDHAY AHMAD!!! He has neurofibromatosis, which has caused a very severe scoliosis, around 110 degrees. This makes it tough to grow, tough to breathe, and can become quite painful. We admitted him for cervical traction at WakeMed Children's Hospital for several weeks, gradually stretching out his spine, which allowed his lungs to work better, improve his spinal alignment, and also improve his nutrition.
Yesterday I got a chance to see Ahmad and his mom and Pre-Med sister at Hey Clinic for his 6 week postop visit doing very well.
12 yo Ahmad, before and after scoliosis surgery |
His mom brought us two big boxes of Dunkin' Donuts which our staff and patients fully enjoyed, even though it broke my "low carb" promise I had made to myself. Ahmad then gave me a very special gift that he had made for me, that he designed himself:
When I opened up the box and took out this beautiful clear award, I just had to laugh as I read the inscription around his before and after X-Rays etched into the glass: "Get it Straight... Dr. Lloyd Hey... COOLEST DOCTOR AWARD" !!!
The hand-written card from Ahmad and his parents was also quite precious...ending with "I love you"
So Ahmad has already told me that he wants to join Hey Clinic as a doctor when he grows up, but he doesn't plan to do surgery, since he "doesn't like blood." His older sister, a pre-med definitely is is surgically minded and wants to help as well. They will likely be working alongside Jonathan R, a boy a little older than Ahmad who had a 110 degree scoliosis we fixed at WakeMed about 2.5 years ago. Jonathan just entered a special medical health high school program so he can fast track toward a career in medicine. As an interesting coincidence, I actually got invited to Jonathan's 14th birthday party, which I went to as Jonathan was making transition to manhood! What a joy to be included in that special celebration with his family and friends. We are all part of a web of relationships... it's not just work!!!
So, Happy Birthday Ahmad, and thanks to you and your family for blessing me and our whole team at Hey Clinic and WakeMed with your words of encouragement, your gifts, and your friendship.
I love you too, Ahmad.
I was a patient once, too, and still love my surgeon who saved my life and my leg.
Dr. Lloyd Hey
Hey Clinic for Scoliosis and Spine Surgery
http://www.heyclinic.com
1 comment:
Hi Dr Hey, I came upon your blog when I googled fracture healing images, as there is that wonderful image of your leg X-rays in 1978, 1981 and 2009. I plan to send my young colleague the link. He is a Christian, and while the GP clinic where we work is a very good place to learn to be a competent, caring and self-caring GP, it is not a particularly nurturing place for the spiritual side of his life and work.
You say in this post that you wanted to write more regularly, so I am writing to encourage you to keep blogging!
Thank you,
Jennifer, Coburg, Australia
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